For details, I will use the search function.
But, my basic question: Is the drumming software, (EZ Drummer, Studio Drummer, etc...) used for just tweaking what you've recorded and making it sound like whatever kit/brand/mix you want, with a really great mix?
Or is it basically like a really kick-a** drum module that gives you extra and more precise/varied sounds/kits/options than your regular module?
Every time I try and search for an answer, it seems like every place feels you already have a basic understanding of how it all works, and what it's for. I can't find an "idiot" site or explanation. LOL
I simply want to know if the software on the laptop CAN be used like a module, and tweak your kit even more. Or, is it just for recording and MAKING your kit sound as good as it can for a final recording? Like a band's final studio mix?
My goal is pretty basic: I want to have the sound that will come out of my headphones or amp, be exactly what it would be on "stage". (I'll never be there, but I want set my kit up as though I would. I hope that makes sense.) I just don't want to have a kit that sounds like sh*t, then make it sound awesome with the software. Seems counter productive if you ever want to play along with someone else.
I will not be offended if you use one syllable words and baby talk to make this make sense to me.

I just want to know what I'm buying before I drop $300+ on some software that may not do what I'm hoping it will.
Thanks,
J