Hello fellow Alesis drummers!

I've recently acquired a DM10X kit without the module and a DM10X Mesh kit with the DM10 module. I've also bought a Strike module for use with the DM10X Mesh kit. However, out of the box, the DM10 module works better than the Strike with the DM10X Mesh kit, as in being more playable with better default trigger setup for the DM10X Mesh pads.
The first hurdle was the hi-hat which now requires a TRS cable to work, while the DM10 loom only had a TS cable for the hi-hat. The "DMPad 12" Hi-Hat Cymbal" has a stereo jack socket, but it appears to only have a single piezo output. Thus I assume that the Strike kit's hi-hat has 2 zones. OK, I can live with that.
The second hurdle was the hi-hat pedal. I only have the "RealHat Pedal" that comes with the DM10 kits, not the Strike kit's more fancy variety that uses an actual hi hat stand and pedal. It gives me two problems:
1 - Wonky sensitivity, with only a couple of millimeter travel at the very bottom controlling the whole range from closed to open. I've tried all the curves (LOG is the way to go it seesm) and played with the offset, but I just can't get a good range of travel for the semi open sounds.
2 - No splash when quickly releasing the pedal. Tried all permutations of FOOT SENS, OFFSET and SPLASH...
1 and 2 could be due to the Strike kit's different sensor, but still, one would think it's the same thing, just in a different form factor(?).
I have searched around; found these threads that says that the RealHat Pedal should work with the Strike module, including making splashes:
New Alesis kits vs Original DM10Replace the DM10 MKII PRO Module with STRIKE PERFORMANCE DRUM Module?Strike Module w/ DM10 PadsHow to improve the Strike Hi-hat controller?Then there are at least some other members here who can't get it working or only part working:
Alesis DM 10 pedal with Strike Pro SE Kit and ModuleSTRIKE MODULE Triggering using External Module/TMI/ControllerEdit: And here is a YouTube video of the "just works" variety:
Alesis Strike Pro SE - DM Hat DemoI've tried Alesis support for getting info about the circuitry/wiring for the various pads and pedals, but they will not disclose any such information. Trivial and useful stuff, but needlessly protected like state secrets... The Module documentation is also lacking IMO. From my experience, a support ticket trail about this will probably not lead anywhere.
So, has anybody been able to make the Strike module hi-hat work OK with the "RealHat Pedal", getting the splash to work, and getting a good controllable range for open/close? If so what are the relevant settings? My Strike module has firmware version 1.5 and I did a factory reset before trying it out.
I know this is an often asked question, but I only find "just works" or "doesn't work" reports so far. I really want it to work, and being at my wits end, I post here hoping for a solution.
Edit: OK - I've come a bit further. The first kit "Big Bird", using the "Big Bird HH Pedal" is impossible to get a splash out of, whereas some of the other hi hat pedal sounds are varying degrees from "almost impossible" to "possible but not when I actually play". That is, those that works require an extremely hard and fast stomp on the pedal - not something that can be done with any consistency. Also the SPLASH parameter that is said to "Higher values make it more difficult to ?splash,..." doesn't seem to have any effect at all. Oh well, a bit closer, but far off any cigar! My questions still stand :-)
Just for the hell of it I also measured the RealHat Pedal variable resistance to be 0 - 62 ohms.
Edit 2: OK - the sound is so worth it over the DM 10, unsurprisingly

- I just have to make the hi-hat work somehow!
TIA!