Ghostman, I bet your having trouble with the "Absolute rock kit"?
If that is the case there is an easy fix. Instead of choosing the V-drum kits choose from the keyboard kits. They are the same kits but they are mapped a little different, same sounds and it loads fine on the keyboard kit.
The "keyboard" kits are better also because you get more note mapping options for example ride x ,, there are no mappings for the x ride in the VD kits but there are on the keyboard maps. I think this is true for the crash a and crash B also. Anyway if you look at that midi map sticky and compare you will see what I'm talking about.
Another good thing to do is to go into options and go to the search / DB tab. Clear the default and point it directly to your sound library folder. In my case I have the Library on a USB thumb drive because it's faster than a external hard drive. The reason for doing this is so that it only indexes that folder instead of the whole hard drive. --------------BZ