Hi, my first post here!
Just bought a 2nd hand Nitro Mesh kit recently. I'm a beginner and found the ridiculos high rims to be a big hindrance to find a technique that was natural for me without hitting the rims, and glad to hear experienced drummers have same opinion, and took the plunge to trim the rim. I haven't got a lathe, so I took a hack saw and and carefully made a groove around the rim where it bevels out, before cutting it off. That was a bit more than JustJoe did, and now the rim is flush with the mesh head, and it is much easier to play now! I only did it on the snare as the toms can be angled and I just pulled of the rubber rings on these to lower rim a few mm. I think the rim is still strong enough to keep mesh tight and not breaking, but time will tell.
Bard